(im)perfect quest for love

Hilarious and flawed stories about my personal dating life

Ladies, you are going to meet, and presumably also have met many many guys in your during your time on this earth. I wish I could write, and all these men want you but no, this blog is about honesty. So, I hate to tell you that some of these guys will simply not be …

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It’s not like I woke up one day and said, “I need to wake women up to what’s going on in their relationships, and then I’m going to the drink a glass of wine to applaud myself.” I really had no idea that it was not just me, but many women were spending so much …

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I think that being creative can lead to many new opportunities in life. One of them being finding Mr.Right or meeting new people that could end up leading to a date, friendship or a down right proposal. Why? The English word Creativity comes form Latin term creare “to create, make”. Creativity is a phenomenon whereby …

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I was in the process of writing a post about about one of my ex boyfriend – the OCD Man. For him humor and jokes were quite hard to understand. This was quite the obstacle in our relationship, in addition to for instance having to wipe my shoes with a dedicated brush each time I …

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This is not dating or romance related. But may get your mind thinking about something else for a while. Have you ever heard about 9D to 12D music? Until recently I had never heard of it and enjoy my playlist on Spotify with a number of dubious names “new sheise” “music for my dad” for …

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These books all contain hotter more explicit sex scenes than my nemesis book Fifty Shades of Gray, I promise. I’m an advocate of empowering women to embrace and explore their sexuality. Through erotic books, we can live out our fantasies or find inspiration to reenact scenes in our own bedroom. More sex equals happier women. …

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I am not sure where to start, there is almost too much to share about Fifty Shades of Gray, none are positive.  Yes, the book has sold over 100 million copies and is one of the most purchased books in history. Admittedly, I didn’t get very far. And no, it wasn’t the content – I can appreciate …

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It is more than two decades since the launch of commercial online dating sites started. I still remember the dail-up sound connecting to the world wide web. If you have forgotten or maybe too young to experience just hit play and lisen. In 2020 even if most of the world is in lockdown due to …

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This post is aimed to address the females relationship (and men) with the appearance of their genitals, vaginas or vajayjay’s and how society is actively part of constructing an inaccurate norm of the female genital as well as. About half of the human population has a female genital but very little awareness is given to …

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The above header is a quote from Tony Abbot Prime Minister of Australia 2014 —————————- I recently went into a toy store and it struck me wast the segregated pink and blue aisles of the toys. Is it really true that the kinds of toys children like to play with are gender specific? Needless to …

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